Bathing

Bathing can be difficult because the person in your care may feel embarrassed about being naked in front of you, resentful of needing this care or uncomfortable with bathing. Bathing also requires your constant attention to avoid falls or other injury. Tips include:

• Make the bathroom safe. Install safety bars, put a rubber mat on the floor of the bathtub or shower, and use a sturdy chair or bathing chair. Install a hand-held shower head if possible.
• Prepare supplies. Have soap, shampoo, washcloths and towels in place ahead of time, so that you don't have to leave the person in your care unattended.
• Make the bath comfortable. Make sure the bathroom is warm and well lit. Play soft music if it promotes relaxation.
• Keep it private. If the person in your care is self-conscious about being naked, offer a towel for over the shoulders or lap. Use a sponge or washcloth to clean under the towel.
• Be respectful. Explain what you are doing and what you are going to do next. Let the person in your care help as much as possible.
• Alternate full baths or showers with sponge baths. A full bath or shower two or three times a week is likely enough. In between, use a washcloth or sponge to clean the person's face, hands, feet, underarms and genitals. Washing hair with a spray hose in the kitchen sink may be easier for some people.
• Dry thoroughly. Use towels to pat dry gently and take care to dry any folds in the skin to avoid irritation.