Connect through the senses

Even if your loved one doesn't recognize you or can't communicate verbally, you can still show reassurance and love. To maintain a connection, use your loved one's senses:

• Touch. Hold your loved one's hand. Brush his or her hair. Gently massage your loved one's hands, legs or feet.
• Smell. The scent of a favorite perfume, flower or food might be comforting.
• Sight. Show your loved one a video with scenes of nature and soft, calming sounds. Or take him or her to look at a garden or watch the birds.
• Hearing. Read aloud, even if your loved one can't understand the words. The tone and rhythm of your voice might be soothing.