A few things that might actually help

Although there's no guaranteed safe and effective way to enlarge your penis, there are a few things you can do if you're concerned about your penis size.

• Communicate with your partner. It may be hard to break old habits or to discuss sexual preferences with your partner. But you'll be glad you did — and you may be surprised at the spark it ignites in your sex life.

• Get in shape and lose the belly fat. If you're overweight and have a "beer gut," your penis might appear shorter than it is.

  Regular exercise can make a big difference. Better physical conditioning may not only make you look better, but also can improve strength and endurance during sex.

• Talk to your doctor or a counselor. Feeling unhappy about the size of your penis is common. A certified counselor, psychologist, psychiatrist or your family doctor can help.

Many men feel better with reassurance that they are "normal" or with advice about how to better satisfy their partner without resorting to cosmetic penis enlargement.