Support group red flags

Not all support groups are a good match for you. Some may be driven by the interests of one or two members. Look for these red flags that may signal a problem with a support group:

• Promises of a sure cure for your disease or condition
• Meetings that are predominantly gripe sessions
• A group leader or member who urges you to stop medical treatment
• High fees to attend the group
• Pressure to purchase products or services
• Disruptive members
• Judgment of your decisions or actions

Be especially careful when you're involved in Internet support groups:

• Keep in mind that online support groups are sometimes used to prey on vulnerable people.
• Be aware of the possibility that people may not be who they say they are, or may be trying to market a product or treatment.
• Be careful about revealing personal information, such as your full name, address or phone number.
• Understand the terms of use for a particular site and how your private information may be shared.
• Don't let Internet use lead to isolation from your in-person social network.