Letting your child learn

Allowing your child to learn from failure requires you to step back and let your child experience it. If your child is facing a situation in which his or her safety is at risk, your intervention is appropriate and necessary. But, if your child hasn't completed an assignment on time, let him or her face the consequences. This will help your child learn that the rules apply to him or her and to keep better track of assignments and deadlines.

Also, make room for your child to advocate for himself or herself. If your child experiences bumps in a friendship, avoid interfering. Instead, offer a listening ear. Discuss what he or she thinks is the best way forward. Offer your support. If asked, give advice.