
We know what to do. Why don't we do it?
You're focused on the 'shoulds' instead of the 'wants'
You're mad at yourself all the time
You're overlooking the nitty gritty
You're comparing yourself to others
You're overlooking the nitty gritty
Imagining how good you'll feel when you've reached a goal is great. It's the part where you get excited and motivated. But dreaming about the future can mean you're not getting realistic about the obstacles.
There's a difference between imagining yourself stronger from a gym routine and imagining yourself getting out the door earlier in the morning for a workout. To get to the reward, you have to be mentally ready for the things in your way.
Try this: Program your brain with "if-then" thinking. If you miss a morning workout, you'll take an after-dinner walk. If you keep skipping your daily exercise, you'll make plans with a friend to do it together.
That way, you'll have solutions at the ready when you hit setbacks. And your bad days won't knock you off course.