Coping and support

Finding out that you have a tumor or cancer can be overwhelming and frightening. You can help yourself to feel more in control by taking an active role in your health care. To help you cope, try to:

• Learn enough about your tumor to make decisions about your care. Ask your doctor about your tumor, including whether it is cancerous, your treatment options and, if you like, your prognosis. As you learn more, you may become more confident in making treatment decisions.
• Keep friends and family close. Keeping your close relationships strong will help you cope. Friends and family can provide the practical support you'll need, such as helping take care of your home if you're in the hospital. And they can serve as emotional support when you feel overwhelmed.

• Find someone to talk with. Find a good listener with whom you can talk about your hopes and fears. This may be a friend or family member. The concern and understanding of a counselor, medical social worker, clergy member or cancer support group also may be helpful.

  Ask your doctor about support groups in your area or contact cancer organizations, such as the National Cancer Institute or the American Cancer Society.