Coping and support

A diagnosis of rhabdomyosarcoma can be frightening — especially for the family of a newly diagnosed child. With time you'll find ways to cope with the distress and uncertainty of cancer. Until then, you may find that it helps to:

• Learn enough about rhabdomyosarcoma to make decisions about care. Ask your doctor about this sarcoma, including treatment options. As you learn more, you may become more confident in understanding and making decisions about treatment options. If your child has cancer, ask the health care team for guidance on sharing this information in a caring and age-appropriate way.
• Keep friends and family close. Keeping your close relationships strong can help you deal with cancer. Friends and relatives can provide the practical support you'll need, such as helping take care of your home if your child is in the hospital. And they can serve as emotional support when you feel overwhelmed.
• Ask about mental health support. The concern and understanding of a counselor, medical social worker, psychologist or other mental health professional also may help you. If your child has cancer, ask your health care team for advice on providing emotional and social support and options for professional mental health support. You can also check online for a cancer organization, such as the American Cancer Society, that lists support services.